Stability in the Midst of Problems   

Stability in the Midst of Problems   

Michelle Matthias

Problems are a part of life. We cannot escape them. Problems are woven into the fabric of man’s sinful nature. Our automatic response is to go into problem-solving mode and correct what’s wrong. The ‘problem’ is that we are so limited in our capacity to fix all the problems around us and those we may face.

This week’s blog is intended for those who have experienced problems, are experiencing problems, or want to be prepared should they experience problems.

Let me start with some biblical points;

• Make your relationship with God your primary relationship. Rather than trying to fix everything, seek His way and ask Him to show you your way. If He is with you, you will not be intimidated by your problems and you will not be afraid because you will not be alone.

“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” – Isaiah 41:10

• You will always face problems in this life. But more importantly, you will always have Christ with you, helping you to handle whatever you encounter. You must keep your mind firmly fixed on Him and He will guide you all the way.

“Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, “This is the way; walk in it.” – Isaiah 30:21

• Leave the outcomes to God. Follow Him wherever He leads. If your life takes you to a cliff, don’t you dare jump, be prepared to climb. Wait upon The Lord and stay in step with Him.

“I am still confident of this: I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.” – Psalm 27:13–14

• When we are faced with problems, it sometimes feels like God is silent or not with us. We can either panic or pray. We may not always get the answer we expect or want but He answers and His answers are right and His promises are sure.

“When they call on me, I will answer; I will be with them in trouble.” – Psalm 91:15

“The Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you” – Deuteronomy 31:6

• Sometimes your situations get worse before they get better but God has not and will never abandon you.

“Even if I go through the deepest darkness, I will not be afraid, Lord, for you are with me.” – Psalm 23:4

A few practical points when faced with problems;

• Acknowledge the problem
• Use your support system
• Choose positive coping skills
• Get an accountability partner
• Live in the moment
• Take care of yourself

Finally, nothing catches God by surprise, and nothing is too hard for Him to handle.

“So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” – 2 Corinthians 4:18